Patricia Grisafi
A woman who was body-shamed on Bumble is using TikTok to expose the body-shamer. Her video has been viewed over 550,000 times since Monday.
TikToker Emma (@dilemma.rec) created a video where she shares the interaction she had with the man she matched with.
The man had openly asked for a wedding date on the platform, to which Emma asked, “So when are we going to the wedding?”
The Bumble match cruelly rejected Emma and said he only wants to take “chicks that weigh less then [sic] me.”
Emma then sarcastically calls him a “gem” and said whoever ends up with him would be “lucky.”
But the encounter didn’t end there—it just got more uncomfortable and mean when the match told Emma to go to Weight Watchers and the gym.
Emma went further and shared his Bumble, LinkedIn, and Facebook profiles. By sharing this information, folks were able to see his full name, place of work, and other details that could identify him.
Emma later followed up the video by saying she matched with the guy due to speed-swiping and that she didn’t see the details on his profile that might have made her pass him over.
“It’s like a fun little game,” Emma explained. “If I like somebody I match with them, and if they match back with me, cool. If I don’t like somebody, then I don’t match with them. I don’t go out of my way to like be mean to them like some psychopaths do.”
“Did I see that he was a conservative? No, because it’s a game of Hot or Not. I was swiping really quickly and I saw open bar and I saw a man with muscles, and I said ‘yeah, let’s go for that.'”
Emma was shocked that her video went viral—and that viewers went looking for the guy’s parents.
“Y’all finding his parents is a little bit unhinged. I’m not responsible for your actions. So just keep that in mind, I will say that. Would I have posted his LinkedIn had I known it was gonna blow up and get more than my normal 30 likes? No, I would not have because that’s bitchy. Anyway, we’re on a floating rock, come vibe with me on this hammock, where we have wine, we have heart-shaped sunglasses.”
Featured Image: TikTok